Extreme Introvert

Perspectives from a guy dwelling at the deep end of the introversion spectrum

Sunday, January 1, 2023

On Minglers

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The crystal entrance of the banquet hall was fogged by a pattern of handprints arranged in a sort of herringbone. Above the doors, an archin...
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Thursday, September 17, 2020

Characters In Isolation

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I never write about characters in isolation. And I can't think about a novel that is about a character in isolation. It would be a very ...
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Wednesday, July 15, 2020

When Answers Are Expected

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Farley goes quiet. I let the silence build until it fills every corner of the room. It leaks into his ears and his chest and his bladder and...
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Tuesday, April 21, 2020

On Silence Garnering Respect

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Soon he essentially stopped talking. "I am retreating into silence as a defensive mode," he mentioned. Eventually, he was down to ...
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Tuesday, March 24, 2020

On Preventing Unnecessary Homicides

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... it was not unusual for us to go days without finding anything to say to each other. The vast emotional distances between the individua...
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Tuesday, March 17, 2020

Social Distancing

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After Microsoft, Amazon, Facebook and Google closed their offices in Seattle, I asked my boss, "Are we the last holdouts?" This w...
Monday, March 16, 2020

On Responding To Invitations

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I never respond to invitations. It just smacks of desperation. The only event I am certain to attend is my funeral, and I hope to arrive ver...
Thursday, December 19, 2019

Floaters

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There were turtles every morning, tumbling in the surf as it crashed against the reefs. Floating above and beside them, we were all slav...
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Wednesday, December 18, 2019

The Flatulent Philosophizing About The Chattiness Of Others

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Like the uncertainty principle, the Drake Equation has had a layer of interpretation laid over it that obscures what it really says. In shor...
Sunday, June 30, 2019

Even AI's Need Breaks

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I was stalling. I would have to interact with humans as an augmented human... I had imagined it as taking place from a distance, or in the s...
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Wednesday, June 12, 2019

Could Have Done Anything, Been Quiet Even

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Not one of you was normal, I said, and I watched him push his plate of half-eaten food towards me as though he were a child in a tantrum. Ye...
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Friday, February 1, 2019

Silence Overcomes

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Any trouble under the sun can be overcome by silence. Excerpt from The Holy Man by Susan Trott  
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Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Cagey

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I was a teenager, and I was working the night shift at a psychiatric hospital. All of the patients were tucked away in their rooms, and I w...
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Monday, September 10, 2018

A Needless Construct

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We ate the rest of it in silence, enjoying the feeling of the cold morning air and hot food in our bellies. That's one of the things I...
Thursday, July 5, 2018

Being An Outsider

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... there are so many issues at play in Hunchback that continue to be relevant today... the ridicule and torment in all its forms of those ...
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Thursday, June 21, 2018

Master Of My Domain

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After all these years, I've finally obtained the domain, extremeintrovert.com . It was once owned by someone else, but I recently saw t...
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Friday, May 25, 2018

Let Them Enjoy My Introversion

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Lately I've been wondering if I've grown too old to care how many times a day people make note of my quietness (among other such thi...
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Thursday, March 8, 2018

On The Names Of Things

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Being at a startup, I get a small-but-not-insignificant chance to influence how things develop, and a chance like that cropped up recently a...
Tuesday, January 16, 2018

On Where To Begin

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"What are you, antisocial?" someone will ask. "I'm not antisocial ," I'll say. "I'm just unsocial ....
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Tuesday, December 5, 2017

On Another Start (Or Restart)

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A few months ago, I left my relatively new job and accepted an offer at a startup. Returning to another startup after so many years seems a...
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Thursday, October 12, 2017

On Responding To Sounds

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I recently learned that I'm losing hearing in one of my ears. This has presented me with a new challenge and a new perspective. Now I...
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Wednesday, June 21, 2017

War Room

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It's the end of a work day and I'm crammed into a small conference room with other colleagues. The room is dubbed the "War Roo...
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Tuesday, June 20, 2017

On Snark And Enthusiasm

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Sitting around a conference table, I typed away at my laptop while others chatted. I tuned in when they began discussing one of my projects...
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Monday, June 19, 2017

Zen And The Perks Of Motorcycle Maintenance

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Two coworkers were chatting about their motorcycles, and after some time one of them turned the conversation towards me. "We should ge...
Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Expressive On The Inside

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I was hard at work and trying to ignore the chaos surrounding me, but at some point my mind registered that someone had been speaking to me ...
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Monday, April 17, 2017

On Bantering And Warmth

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There is a group of six or seven people gathered just a little way behind me who have aroused my curiosity a little. I naturally assumed at ...
Monday, March 27, 2017

On Easing Up The Sound Barrier

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There are ways of making your presence known that some would consider uncouth and even shocking. There are ways of announcing yourself that...
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Wednesday, February 8, 2017

On The Birthing Of Words

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Not many weeks ago, I told a colleague that I'd prefer him to use my full and correct name, and -- in case he couldn't handle that -...
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Friday, January 20, 2017

On A Conspiracy To Let Me Be Myself

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During a meeting with my fellow co-workers, our new product manager went around the table asking us about our existing tasks and projects. W...
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Friday, December 30, 2016

How Quickly They Catch On

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On the way out of the office this afternoon, knowing that my coworker would be hosting a New Year's Eve party, I said to him: "Enjo...
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